March 17, 2012

Boyfriend.



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I've always had a problem with the word "boyfriend." I'm not sure why. I've only called one boy my boyfriend in my whole life and it was really weird. Every time I said it I cringed. I think it's because I hate when girls are always saying things like, "Oh, my boyfriend did this" and, "Isn't my boyfriend the cutest?" Especially if I know the boyfriend's name. Call him by his NAME. I know who he is without you saying boyfriend. And don't just refer to each other as "babe." That's the worst isn't it? Yeah it's gross and it makes me want to gag. I say it as a joke. But I know people who literally call their significant other "babe" at all times. Every once in awhile is fine. But mix it up. There are plenty of pet names out there to use. 

Also, I'm good with PDA. But don't make out in public. You'd be surprised how often I see this in Happy Valley. It's gross. We get it. You're in love. But making out in public just makes all of us onlookers think that you're insecure and you're so happy that you have a significant other that you have to make it known to the world at all times. Or at least that's what I think. Holding hands? Perfect. Cuddling? Awesome. A little kiss? Totally fine. Anything more than that. YUCK. Save it for the bedroom. Or, if you go to BYU, the living room. Or outside somewhere in a park because you can't get down in the dorm room lobby area. And by get down we all know I mean make out. It's a tough life, I get it. BYU approved housing can be a huge cock block. But you shouldn't be getting down with your significant other anyway. Just chill out. Get to know each other. Heaven KNOWS you'll get married way too quickly anyway, so soon enough you can get down as much as you want. Until then, try a little communication. 

I went there. And I'm not very sorry about it. 

6 comments:

  1. i love your blogs! they are always so real and its just like "yeah, thats right. i totally agree" :) keep doing it!

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  2. Ugh. You are so gorgeous it kind of hurts. And I mean that in a good way. Love this post!

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    1. Uh you are way too nice to me! Congrats on the engagement!

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  3. Amen!! I agree with everything you had to say

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  4. Found you via Living in Yellow. I have to like sarcasm, cuz my boyfriend... no, I don't call him by that name, but by his real name ;)... is sarcastic. It kinda rubs off I noticed.
    Btw, totally agree: communication is sooo much more important than having to be all obsessed with kissing and the like.
    Btw once more, I really like your hair! Very pretty. :)

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  5. Agree, agree, agree! You're the cutest!
    PS) I also found your blog from Living in Yellow. :-)

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